A Woman's Intercession

Where would I be without the intercession of the women in my life? The thought knocks the arrogance right out of me. I remember hearing how Saint Augustine, author of Confessions, lived wrongfully in his youth. For years (maybe decades), his mother used to weep for him daily and pray fervently for him. When at last he had a change of heart and lifestyle, he attributed the opening of his eyes to his mother tears.

There must be many mothers who weep over the decisions their children make. I find myself quiet at this moment -- for my own mother and the other women in my life: my sister, my wife, my grandmothers, aunts, and even friends.

The New Testament has at least two interceding mother stories. In both stories, Jesus seemingly refuses the request until he is pressed. One intercession happens as Mary asks her son Jesus for help at a wedding in John 2 (see blog below). Another mother, a non-Jew, intercedes on behalf of her sick daughter, and even accepts arguably some of the harshest words from Jesus, "it is not right to take the children's bread and throw it to the dogs," by saying, "even the dogs under the table eat the children's crumbs."

How many times would I have fallen were it not for the diligence of the women in my life, arguing with, as it were, even the Lord himself for my sake? How inspiring, and reassuring. Thank God for these women's intercessions.

An Incomplete Miracle?

Six (~25-gallon) stone jars of water? Coming from Saint John, that's especially troubling. The apostle was all about sevens as the number of completion -- six is the number of incompletion, imperfection, the Beast's first, middle and last name etc. It should have been seven jars (or even eight, the number of renewal) but six? Jesus' first miracle -- the turning of water into wine at the wedding feast in Cana -- is recorded in Saint John's gospel. I had always been bothered by one detail in an otherwise perfectly beautiful story. What happened to the seventh and eighth jars? Was Jesus trying to show us earthly marriage is doomed to be incomplete? Was it because Jesus hadn't started his ministry? Saint John recorded numbers carefully (seven miracles in the gospel, Revelation's seven seals, seven vials, seven woes, etc.) so I didn't think the answer is as simple as, "that's just the number of jars they had." Then a wonderful answer came to me.

The logo to the right is for a convent of an order of nuns who take a vow of service (among other vows). The logo depicts the miracle at the Cana wedding as Mary asks Jesus to help and instructs the servants to "do whatever he tells you." Jesus tells them to fill the six large jars with water which they do. Then Jesus tells them to draw some out and to take it to the head steward and the steward is surprised at the quality. This logo shows a nun of the order as a servant who is either filling up the large stone jars or who is drawing some out to give to the weddig party (and I love the ambiguity).

Count the jars in the picture. Indeed where is the seventh jar? It is in the hands of the servant heeding the advice "do whatever he tells you" and laboring to complete the task (in this case, carrying 150 gallons of water). And when I look closely, the eighth jar is there too. It is the jar in the hand of the servant who, once the miracle is performed, labors to carry the marvelous result of God's love back to the people. We are the seventh jar - the completion. We are the eighth jar - the renewal. Jesus is allowing us to be an integral part of both the completion and the renewal.

The first miracle at the first sacrament -- the spotless sacrament. Water (rots with age) was changed to wine (becomes tastier and more valuable with time). Worldly marriages are at their zeniths at the beginning but when Jesus is invited into my wedding and marriage, just when it looks like the celebration will die down, out comes the best wine. And I'll keep saying, "you saved the best until now." (John ch.2:1-22)

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